About This Project
Through this project, the California Center of Excellence for Trauma Informed Care works to help stop trusted advisor abuse by providing an opportunity to educate the general public, to hold professionals to a higher level of responsibility, to ensure that accountability systems do a much better job policing abuse within their ranks, and to protect those who rely on providers, whether in publicly-funded systems or on the private market.
How does Trusted Advisor Abuse fit with other forms of interpersonal abuse or assault?
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Why, Where and How
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Both legal and ethical standards require that all physicians, clinicians, and professionals employed in any medical, psychiatric, or child welfare setting must — above all — do no harm to the patient, client, or child. In addition, any helping professional who tends to the human body and mind must protect the safety of the patient and promote the health of the patient. Upholding the patient’s human dignity and inviolate rights is an integral part of all healthcare and treatment approaches (Pols, 2003). The “do no harm” philosophy has been a shining star, setting guidelines for medicine and other healthcare and helping professionals. Unfortunately, this standard has been betrayed and violated on many occasions since Hippocrates articulated his oath requiring that all physicians uphold professional ethical standards.
Far too often, helping professionals have preyed on their patients’ vulnerability: abusing them physically, sexually, emotionally, and/or financially. Helping professionals who abuse their positions of power and privilege engage in a specific form of abuse: Trusted Adviser Abuse.
Trusted advisor abuse occurs when a person in a position of trust — such as a teacher, faith minister, therapist, doctor, nurse, treatment provider, lawyer, coach, yoga instructor, or financial planner — uses that position to abuse and control a patient, client, parishioner, or athlete. The abuse is usually relational, whereby the person abused feels a special bond or connection to the trusted advisor. The person abused may not see the abuse until long after it has started. Or the victim may immediately know something is wrong but cannot tell anyone, due to social and cultural messages about “trust” or “authority” or “compliance.”
The victim often feels responsible for the abuse, experiencing emotions like guilt or embarrassment. Some unethical professionals cut off their patient’s connections to family and friends. Others have groomed their patients into becoming compliant or dependent on them. Others have physically threatened or blackmailed their patients into obedience. Of course, these approaches evolve over time and anyone may be at risk!
Trusted advisor abuse reveals one of the great unspoken truths: No one should be trusted blindly.
In all situations of trusted advisor abuse, there is a lack of accountability, whether on the part of the perpetrator(s) or the oversight system(s), or both. Abused patients, their parents, or any family members can become aware of their rights and the remedies available. Help stop trusted advisor abuse. Knowledge and resources will allow you to take action!
Spirituality and Trauma Recovery
Read the PDF white paper on Spirituality and Trauma Recovery
Safety Before Trust Podcast
Trusted Advisor Abuse: Cases in the Yoga Community
An explanation of the concept of trusted advisor abuse and an examination of cases that have occurred in the Bikram Yoga and Yoga to the People communities
Suggest a Resource or Advocacy Group or Tell Us Your Story
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- Have you heard of new, emerging incidents of Trusted Advisor Abuse or do you know of any additional helpful resources or advocacy groups that should be included on this Stop Trusted Advisor Abuse website? Let us know!
- Or tell us your story! Your comments will not be made public. For a more public forum, see the Additional Resources Link above.